On a related note, this game takes place long after ADoM, surely gender equality has come some distance since then. Why not have goodhusbands?
More generally, it would be good if, for a few select species for which it makes sense, the game adjusts the name of the creature to suit its gender - so, for instance, if there was a Cow type creature in the game, then a female would be a Cow and a male would be a Bull, even if they otherwise were identical.