You should be able to automatically switch places with a lot of friendlies you're not currently able to, such as Tywat Pare, Guth'Alak, Blub, Yggaz... basically anyone/anywhere this can't be abused in some way... instead of the usual 'are you sure you want to attack' prompt.

On top of this, the random 'foo doesn't like being pushed around' chance of aggro should be removed from the game, at least from Dwarftown. I've lost a few characters to that. Having to carefully navigate around all the townsfolk is a bit tedious and silly.

edit: I accidentally made this into a bug report. Again.