I'm not sure the talent tree should all be viewable at once, but it'd be nice for people to at least have the chance to see what they're missing over time.
I have two suggestions - first, hapro's, toggling the tree to show All or Available, with those that have unmet prerequisites show up greyed-out with the prereqs listed in red underneath. Second, have the talent list show only those unmet-prereq talents they've already taken in previous lifetimes when they select a new talent - this fits nicely with the idea of experience growing with multiple incarnations (like the Bug Temple) but doesn't entirely spoil the player.