We were both around for the entire ten years of ADOM 1.1.1. We've both played it to hell and back. It's just inconceivable to me that you want to play more of the same so much. It's entirely up to you how you make use of your access to the nightly builds, of course - but if you want to spend time complaining about the decisions made based on RFEs and the discussion on them without ever taking part in them or making an effort to be constructive yourself, and placing the blame on those other players for wanting to contribute their thoughts and ideas to help Thomas make the best game he can, you simply won't get any sympathy from me.
If you want to blame anyone, blame Thomas. It's his game, his artistic vision, and the decisions you loathe so much are his decisions. Starting a thread with this title and displaying this kind of attitude gets you as far as a 1 Toughness mist elf merchant on a Monday.