Yes, even when dual wielding, backstab only counts for the first attack.
I'd ditch the scorched spear and just equip a shield - serpent's bite with all backstab and assassin class bonuses is a very powerful weapon.
Instead, I'd focus on stealth + stealthy talent and possibly invisibility as all those additions will increase the frequency of backstabs - less monsters will notice you.
For dual wielding, the only viable choice for me is needle+sting. If you plan on an ultra, assassins can get the Filk quest at level 30 (or 35) versus 45 for all other chars.
That way, you can kill shrax, get the quest, kill the prince and have both daggers around lvl 30, for the remainder of the game.
Of course, at this point, killing shrax is easier said than done but it's certainly possible, with enough disablers and/or dragon slayers.
"Hell is empty and all the devils are here."